10 MEN THAT WOMEN SHOULD NOT DATE
1. A MAN WITHOUT A MORAL COMPASS
WHY—- whether it is Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, or whatever…. most organized religions stress having a moral compass and how to treat someone. Even if your man is not religious he needs a moral compass. A man without a moral compass will most likely not respect his woman and is beholden to no one. This man is not prohibited by anything once they feel they can escape society’s law and your eyesight. He will cheat with anyone or do anything that feels pleasurable.
2. A MAN WHO BELIEVES THAT HE HAS THE RIGHT TO TELL YOU WHERE TO GO, WHAT TO SAY, HOW TO ACT, WHAT TO WEAR, WHOM TO HANG AROUND, WHERE TO WORK, AND WHOM TO TALK TO
WHY—-this man seeks to control you. He does not want a partner he wants a subordinate. You should marry a husband not your father. Even if a man can give you advice to better your life in areas you are weak, that advice must be welcomed and embraced. Otherwise, it will fall on deaf ears and resentment will build inside you towards him. You will long to escape and be with someone who doesn’t think they “know everything”, and that escape may lead you to stray emotionally and eventually maybe even physically.
3. A MAN WHO WOULD PUT HIS HANDS ON ANOTHER PERSON VERY EASILY
WHY—-a man who will hit someone else easily, will one day hit his woman. This fool has lost his ever-loving mind and deserves a one-way ticket to jail. In today’s society to put your hands on another man without fully understanding the consequences doesn’t make you tough, it makes you stupid. This man has no respect for other people’s life or his own. He is a prisoner of his emotions and has poor impulse control. His lack of impulse control can lead him to hitting you (his woman). If a man ever put his hands on you and it has not been provoked by a physical attack (and I mean a serious physical attack), you must leave him immediately and never look back. He is a weak man and cannot be trusted. This man cannot control his temper and all it takes is one punch to severely injure or kill a person if he hits you wrong. Leave immediately and no matter how sorry he says he is and what he tries to provide as gifts…. do not go back. All the apologies in the world can’t bring you back if you’re dead or badly injured.
4. A MAN WHO ALWAYS HAS A PLAN FOR SUCCESS BUT YOU NEVER SEE THE FRUIT OF HIS LABOR.
WHY—-THIS MAN IS A BULLSHITTER. THERE ARE 3 TYPES OF MEN. BULLSHITTERS, BLUFFERS, AND SHO NUFFERS.
BULLSHITTERS talk a great game and every week have a new scheme or plan to get money, but they never produce a steady stream of income that could support a family or even themselves.
BLUFFERS talk a great game and even have mediocre success and they spend all their income showing off to the world that they made it instead of reinvesting and building up their net worth. (i.e. the guy with a Range Rover or Benz living in an apt. not a condo or home…the guy still at his mother’s house and she is not sick or disabled….the guy who’s always coming to your place because his roommate has company that night, but he drives a car with rims worth more than the car )
SHO NUFFERS talk a great game and walk a better walk. You see the fruit of their labor. It may not be instantaneous, but then again neither Rome nor Microsoft was built in a day. This dude may not have the flashiest gear or car, but he has a plan and you can see it developing. The woman who finds this man and stays loyal is usually rewarded for getting in on the ground floor either through his loyalty and devotion or through the court because of community property.
5. A MAN OVER 27 WHO WEARS REAL DIAMONDS AND HAS THE HOTTEST CAR WITH THE HOTTEST RIMS, AND HAS THE HOTTEST BEDROOM WITH A PLASMA TV AT HIS MOTHER’S HOUSE.
WHY—-not only is this man a bluffer, he has no respect for you or himself. What adult male invites a woman to his mother’s house to have sex and thinks that is respectful? What woman feels comfortable letting her inhibitions go, knowing that his mother could knock on the door at any minute? Unless his mother is ill, this man has attachment issues and you need to be weary of him and his “Peter Pan Syndrome”.
6. A MAN WHO HAS MORE THAN 2 WOMEN WHO HE HAS FATHERED CHILDREN WITH
WHY—-this man makes poor decisions. The first time may be excusable, the second time things happen, but the third time you knew better and just aren’t responsible. This man is reckless and most likely will have baby momma drama throughout the relationship. Even if he doesn’t, his check will almost surely be cut in half when child support gets hold of him. Do you want headaches for 18 years?
7. A MAN WHO ANGERS EASILY
WHY—-a man who angers easily has a low tolerance level. Life as a man is hard. A real man knows how to strap up when things get hard and carry the load. He doesn’t break down and submit to emotion easily. He doesn’t become flustered, because a man who loses control of his emotions in crunch time becomes a victim. No matter where you are…the streets or the boardroom…. a man who gives into anger easily is a liability. This man is prone to make rash decisions based on anger and could destroy everything you have built in the blink of an eye.
8. A MAN WHO CRIES EASILY TO HIS WOMAN
WHY—-no woman wants a weak knee man. No matter how in touch a man is with his emotions, unless your man’s family member or his best friend dies, you don’t really want to see him cry. If he cries every time things get rough, who is going to hold you when you cry? Who will be your rock? At some point, no matter how open you are, if your man keeps crying…you are going to think he’s soft and look for a stronger man with a backbone who sucks things up and keeps it moving. A woman respects a man primarily for his strength and confidence. Everything else is secondary.
9. A MAN WHO IS INVOLVED WITH ILLEGAL ACTIVITY
WHY—-this man will put your life in danger just by being with you. The streets talk. The easiest way to get to a man doing illegal activity is by getting to those he loves. The police know this and so do his adversaries. Your life, your children’s life and your friend’s lives are all in danger due to this man. Any man, who would risk his family for money, doesn’t truly respect his family and you should remember that. He will continue doing illegal activities until the consequences catch up to him or he becomes enlightened.
10. A MAN WHO DOES NOT LIKE THE SAME THINGS YOU DO OR DESIRE THE SAME POSITIVE THINGS IN LIFE AS YOU
WHY—-relationships are not just built on love. If love was enough, must relationships would last. Certain things like desire for children, discipline of children, where to live, and lifelong career dreams should be shared and agreed upon, not forced upon someone. Long lasting relationships are built on compatibility. If you do not desire the same things in life or do not like the same things in life you will find yourself compromising or giving in to your mates demands. When a person does not fulfill their own desires they will fester until someone awakens them or they have caused a cancerous resentment inside of the person repressing them. These repressed desires, to do as you please and live, as you like, may cause you to destroy what you have built. It is better to build a relationship with someone who you can enjoy your life with based on like desires, than to build it with someone who looks good on paper, but you have to give in to their demands and you lose your identity to fit their mold.