10 WOMEN THAT MEN SHOULD NOT DATE
1. SHE IS GUARDED AND WILL NOT HAVE OPEN AND CANDID CONVERSATIONS ABOUT HER PAST
WHY—she has not dealt with her past and her past may cause her to judge your actions improperly without regard to you pure motive. This will create relationship full of minefields. Even after you carefully make your way through one, you will still have to navigate many more because she refuses to deactivate the mines.
2. SHE REFUSES TO FIND TIME FOR GYM DATES, WALKING IN THE PARK DATES, MOVIE NIGHT DATES, OR MUSEUM DATES, BUT SHE WILL FIND TIME TO GO TO THE LATEST RESTAURANT OPENING, THE CLUB, OR ANY EXPENSIVE CONCERT IN THE CITY
WHY—fellas this is one of the top signs of a gold-digger. Now her motives may seem pure to her. She may have been with men in the past that never took her out and only tried to have sex with her on dates at his house or around the local neighborhood. Unfortunately, a lot of women do not realize that men see this as a higher form of prostitution and that if they can only get a woman’s time by paying for it, the woman doesn’t care about him. She cares only about what he can do for her. This behavior places a premium on the woman’s time and not the man’s time, which then makes him the hunter. Most hunters don’t keep prey; they consume them and move on. Hence the cycle repeats itself. She needs to get over her past before you can even think of having a real relationship with her. Your job is to be her mate, not to make up for every other man’s transgressions.
3. SHE DOES NOT HAVE A HOME BUT HAS MORE THAN 10 TOP DESIGNER HANDBAGS AND 20 PAIRS OF TOP DESIGNER SHOES THAT SHE BOUGHT WITH HER OWN MONEY.
WHY—-this woman does not value money and does not invest. She values the materialistic world and will not help you create an empire, but she will help you spend your money.
4. SHE CONTINUES TO FIND THUGS AND BAD BOYS SEXY AND DATES OR SLEEPS WITH THEM PAST AGE 25
WHY—-this woman ignores the obvious and will destroy a relationship to get her fix of being dominated and mistreated by a poor excuse for a man. She will act as if she wants an educated man, but her choices in men will betray her secret. She loves drama and will not be happy unless she continues to put herself in bad situations. These bad situations will cause her to continue to be the center of attention as she is constantly telling her inner circle about her latest drama with her man.
5. SHE HAS A BRAND NEW CAR IN HER NAME, AND LIVES AT HOME AND IS ABOVE AGE 27
WHY—-she has no autonomy and desires to have someone take care of her, because that is all she has known. She may say she is saving up for a new house, but in todays market it’s easier to get a first buyer home loan than it has ever been. Cars depreciate and homes tend to appreciate. She could have got a used car and bought a home or rented her own apartment. She chose not to because she is worried about how she looks in her new car. This woman will need time to be on her own before she can be with a man. Otherwise, she may gravitate towards her man due to her need to not feel lonely and not due to love and affection.
6. SHE IS AT EVERY POPULAR EVENT IN THE CITY TRYING TO BE IN THE V.I.P BUT SHE DOES NOT BUY THE BOTTLE, DOES NOT KNOW THE PROMOTER, DOES NOT PROMOTES THE EVENT, AND IS NOT AT A TABLE
WHY—-this woman is on the hunt for a man. She is after a man with money and that search for money makes her a prime target for the gold-digger trap.
7. SHE DOES NOT CONTROL HER ALCOHOL INTAKE OR HER BEHAVIOR ONCE SHE HAS CONSUMED TOO MUCH ALCOHOL
WHY—-this woman is likely to be taken advantage of by a man who provides her drinks in the VIP or who (like a vulture) lurks around and sees her drunk and offers to take her home. She may end up having consensual or nonconsensual sex with these men and will not remember or will remember and may be to ashamed to say anything about it. This failure to disclose material information could lead to issues down the road (unexpected pregnancy, trust issues with men transferred to you, bad reputation due to others observing her that night, being video taped and it resurfacing, or a STD)
8. SHE CANNOT DELAY INSTANT GRATIFICATION
WHY—-this woman will destroy anything positive in her life because she will only think about today. She will blow her money, cheat on her man if the mood is right, lie to her friends to escape embarrassment, and quit her job without a backup plan if she becomes upset. She is the person who most advertisers market to. She is “the can’t say no person”. Avoid her at all costs. She is undisciplined and does not want to learn discipline from a man. She will accuse you of trying to be her father.
9. SHE VERBALLY BERATES YOU OR SHE PUTS HER HANDS ON YOU
WHY—-no matter what she says, this shows a lack of respect for you and your relationship. This woman must be left after the second occurrence, because if not. You may react and you will destroy your life with a criminal record. No matter how wrong a woman is, other men will not justify you hitting a woman unless she has a gun. Verbal altercations tend to lead to physical altercations, and at that point you cannot win the battle of public opinion. If you find yourself with a woman who needs this type of interaction to be turned on, she has deep psychological issues and she is not mentally healthy. Fantasy is one thing, but if this negative behavior is the only way a woman can be turned on…RUN.
10. SHE HAS NO MORAL COMPASS
WHY—-whether it is Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, or whatever most organized religions stress having a moral compass and how to treat someone. Even if your woman is not religious she needs a moral compass. A person without a moral compass is likely to do anything that feels right. This person is not prohibited by anything once they feel they can escape society’s law. She may say that religion oppresses women, but without a moral compass how will she regain her bearing when relationship storms hit the two of you. Those storms will come and she will need more than just her own personal thoughts to survive.