For many, regrets of never telling someone how they feel about them has a tendency to build fear in them. Maybe it’s the fear of rejection or the fear of what they may lose whether it’s friendship or a close relationship with that person. There are times where a person wishes they had said something only to be too late because that person has moved on with someone else. What about that person who tells someone later that they liked them before and wished they had said something in the first place? It would be upsetting because constantly imagining what could have been is worst than never actual making it happen. That’s when they need to decide to not worry about what can happen but more about what will happen. They say honesty can set a person free. Very true in this case because it’s easier to know and deal with a situation, rather then fear and find out that they never gave a chance of what could have been.
Telling someone how they feel only helps them in taking that next step and even possibly finding the happiness they want and deserve. It’s not always easy for a person to tell someone they really care for how they feel because of the fear of what they may or may not say. Rather when they look at it, they really never started with much and have a chance to see if there is something there. And if they do get rejected than at least they weren’t afraid to say it and now can move on to find the person they are truly meant to be with. But finding that person means telling them that as well. People who are often scared of telling someone how they feel means they are scared of themselves. They have a tendency to believe things like they’re not good enough or even don’t deserve that person. Well here’s a hint for them: “Give credit where credit is due, especially to themselves.” Everyone has a special gift or talent which will always be appealing to the one they are meant to be with. People are always talking about a person they like, are in love with, or even want to be with. But in the end for many that’s all they do, TALK. They never tell that person how they are feeling. They never know what is true or what could be true. So if there is someone out that there that they like or even have interest in, they should let them know. Say what they mean because they have nothing to lose and plenty to learn. After all if those people don’t like or care for them back, someone else out there will! And when it’s done they can either be happy or move on to find happiness.