Simms Jr. here. As your Single Men Writer, I feel it’s my duty to, at times, call out my fellow single men. Not all of them. But, a decent sized number. You see, one of my duties (which I have no problem doing ;)) is talking with single women on a regular basis. And one of the biggest complaints I’ve gotten from the ladies is…the lack of quality sex from men.
Fellas. Hear me when I tell you.
You gotta try.
I understand. Not every man is a wizard in the sack. Some of us guys have different standards of sex/pleasing a woman. But, the biggest killer is a percived disinterest in sex. No woman is interested in the guy who spent $200 on dinner and a movie and 5 minutes “in the act”. No single woman is happy with the guy treats sex like…a chore.
Single men. You gotta try.
Me, personaly, I don’t understand why other single men don’t at least put forth the effort to excel at sex. A friend of mine told me years ago (I’m paraphrasing) that “Sex was the one thing that ended up being as good as people made it out to be”. Sex is wonderful. With that said, it’s almost inexcusable that there are men out here who still underperform . You would think that the thrill of sex would cause any man to turn into Michael Jordan in the 4th quarter and “win a ring”. And as far as my sexual prowess?
I try really hard.
Which, is all any man should go for. Why? Well, the obvious reason is because you want to please the lady your are with. You want your satisfaction, but you, the man, should also please the woman. But, here’s another reason a single man may want to step up his game.
The dreaded BDR. Due to the family/corporate nature of this website, I can’t tell you exactly what those three words mean. I’ll just say that the last letter stands for “Report” (which it does). You folks out there are smart (or have access to Google), so you can figure out the rest. Fellas: WOMEN TALK. I don’t know about you, but I’d rather have a GDR than a BDR. The former guarantees you more phone calls. The latter keeps you at home on the weekends.
My fellow single men. I know that most of you are sack-kings. You don’t need my advice. But, for those single men out there who still can’t make a woman climb a wall? The ones who never get their drunk texts answered?
You. Gotta. Try.
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