The passion that a couple feels for one another ebbs and flows throughout the course of a relationship. There are times when the two of you are so completely overwrought with desire for one another that you can hardly stand it, and then again there are those times when the flame is little more than a flicker. That is natural. Most every relationship goes through these periods, but what is important is to not stay in that place.
In their wonderful new eBook, Hilda Hutcherson, M.D. and Ian Kerner, PhD in conjunction with KY brand products, provides a splendid “how to manual” for couples in need of romantic therapy. The eBook, SEASONS OF LOVE: A Holiday Passion Planner available for download on the COUPLES PLACE Facebook page, provides couples with a practical blueprint on how to make love and romance a year ‘round celebration.
For those who find it difficult to purchase relationship books, the eBook solves this as it is a private download; one that the two of you can share. KY and their partners, the experts at
Good in Bed, want to make recoupling as simple as possible. The eBook offers 20-pages of delicious advice!
The first thing you must understand when setting out on this journey, is that it is all about the two of you. Nothing else matters. You will need to cast away any- and everything that is not related to enjoying, learning, connecting, and finding pleasure with your mate. You must hold that idea in your mind and firmly so.
Just as there are seasons in the year, there are season in your relationship. Dr. Hutcherson and Kerner have provided a breakdown of those seasons and how they relate to your relationship.
Part One: Winter– there are longer nights during the Winter. The doctors suggest you take full advantage of this and K-Y® Brand INTENSE® (and other fun products) tomake those long night blissful.
Part Two: Spring- The book suggests, “Spring is the season of renewal—and a perfect time to renew your love life, too.” Who could possible disagree with that? No matter where you are in your love life, you can always use a period of renewal. Love and passion are akin to beautiful roses, they take a lot of work and maintenance, but the result is well worth it. Spring Cleaning is often a big part of people’s schedules, why not make time to “Spring clean” your relationship? Are there things the two of you have outgrown? Are there things you would like to try? Take this time to evaluate your relationship just as you would your home during this time of year.
Part Three: Summer- What better time to get all hot and bothered than Summer? The strategy according to the eBook?
After a day spent with your kids, make the evening strictly adults only by treating him to some cocktails, dessert, and a steamy striptease—starring you. This exercise should take you both back to your dating days, when sex was still just a possibility, not a given. Remember making out, fully clothed, not knowing what would happen next? Tonight, you’re both going to relive those feelings, thanks to a little lap dance.
This is all about you! You are in charge, you are in control, and you will be the one to drive him crazy! (Men, don’t for a minute think you can’t return the dance! She will love it, GO FOR IT!)
Part Four- Autumn- The major holiday during this season is ….Halloween! Perfect! Sure the children will love dressing up and trick-or-treating, but so can you! Even if you do not feel comfortable going to a local party place, there are a multitude of sites that offer costumes for the grown and sexy set. The first thing you need to do is determine what or who you want to be. Was he once an all-star quarterback? Go with the cheerleader costume. Did she have a blast when you took her to Paris? I am sure the costume store has a sexy Frenchman costume. The point is, you are only limited by your imagination! The two of you can discuss it together. You may be surprised to find you share like fantasies!
The best thing about the SEASONS OF LOVE: A Holiday Passion Planner, is you can use the ideas all year. Do not feel you have to stick completely to the planner (that would just take all of the fun out of it!), feel free to add to it or take away things you may not like. What is most important is the dialogue the two of you will have begun.
Your relationship is a journey, and on every journey there absolutely has to be a time for blissful fun! You cannot lose sight of this. Sex, passion, intimacy, and love may all mean different things to each of us, but in a relationship, you would rather have them coincide as neatly as possible. That is the purpose of this book.
Dr. Hutcherson, Dr. Kerner, Good in Bed, and KY brand products have put together a fantastic resource that will, undoubtedly, put you in a blissful place. So, go right over to the Couples Place by K-Y Brand Facebook page, check out what other couples are saying, download the eBook, and coupons for KY products, and, well…enjoy!
Remember, the best love is that which is shared!
If you have ideas to share, please feel free to leave a comment or contact Pamela Smith at firstname.lastname@example.org.