Women’s apologies are sometimes not needed
Let’s face it as women we seem to apologize a lot more than men do and science has confirmed that women consistently apologize more times then men.
However, there is a long list going of things we never should have to apologize for, here are some of the things never to say “I’m Sorry” for:
Never apologize for doing the things in life that make you happy. If leaving your current job makes you happy, changing schools, or even moving whether it is across town or too a new state, you do not need to apologize to people by doing the things that make you happy.
Honesty is the best policy so do not apologize if you tell the truth. True friends will tell us the truth even though we really do not want to hear it. So do not go sugar coating it be honest and truthful.
It is okay to say no. You do not always have to say yes, just because your child your spouse looks at you with pleading eyes does not mean you have to give in and satisfying them with a yes if your mind is saying no.
Friends of friends, spouses and so on…we do not need to like them all. Let’s face it if there are obnoxious or rude, or there is something that just do not sit right about the person and makes you feel uncomfortable or forms a dislike for some unknown reason it is fine not to have to like them. We do not have to like everyone on the planet.
Never apologize for leaving a relationship for at times there is no good or bad one at fault. Sometimes relationships just end from not really agreeing on lot of things in life, to arguing too much or it just is not clicking. You need not apologize to anyone for the split. Never apologize if you leave an abusive relationship you have the right to enjoy a happy, healthy safe life which should always be a main priority.
Someone having a bad day you do not have to apologize for it, it’s not like you gave them the bad. You can however, be there to talk to them to offer advice or a shoulder to lean on.
If you’re single do not make an apology for it, you may just prefer to be single at this point in your life. It can be as simple as maybe you like living alone and not worrying about making decisions that affect another. Maybe living alone gives you the freedom you want and enjoy. So if you are single, do not apologize for it. Live your life and enjoy the time.
Do not apologize if your educated. You chose to have an education. Just because you went to school and someone else did not you need apologize for it.
If you help someone like walking an elderly woman across the street, do not apologize for it. You enjoy helping others and there is nothing wrong with it.
It does not matter if your German, Native American, Chinese or American and so on, we were all born with a nationality and did not have much of choice on our heritage. It does not mean you need to apologize for your nationality. For all the nationalities have one thing in common we are all human.
If you need to take five minutes to chill out and relax do not apologize for it. It allows you to remain healthy and remove some of the days stress. Those that do not take time out of their day seem to have a lot of stress and anxiety.
If you are a single mom go ahead and enjoy it. There are millions of single moms in the world enjoy life and loving every minute with their children. You have no reason to apologize for being a single mom.
If you’re tired and do not want to go out with friends then stay home. Just tell them your tired and you will get together later on. You do not have to I’m sorry because you feel tired.
Just remember if you’re living your life the best possible way you can and are happy, healthy and safe do not apologize for it.
Places in Detroit to check out with friends
150 East Kirby Street #115
Cass Cafe a restaurant and gallery in one
4620 Cass Avenue