You’ve been out with him more than a few times. You’ve enjoyed each other’s company and made plans to see each other. Everything seemed fine. Then suddenly he becomes cold towards you. He doesn’t return your calls. He doesn’t answer your emails.
No more dates. No more calls. Nothing. You wonder, what happened?
You’re not alone, this happened to many women and men. One dating partner decides that they’re ready to move on without telling the other. The one thing you should not do is assume that it was something you did. It was their decision, so there’s really nothing you can do about that.
They may have realized that it wasn’t going to work or they may have met someone else. While it’s their decision, this is not the right way to treat someone. So what you need to do is start looking for someone else to date.
Don’t worry about if he’ll come back later or if you should wait for him. You weren’t in an exclusive relationship so you don’t owe him any leniency. While this behavior may be a shock, it’s something you need to get over as soon as possible. The best way to do that is to never date just one man.
If you’re not in a committed relationship, don’t limit yourself to one dating partner. That way when one of the flakes off, like this one, you still have options. Remember if you’re not in an exclusive relationship you have the right to date whoever you want.